Traveling with a baby may seem like an extreme undertaking, even more so when you have to do it alone. My daughter's first flight was at 2 months old and before we left, I did a ton of research to make sure we had everything I thought we would need. It was a breeze and we made it without a hiccup or meltdown. Magic? Nope! With these items and the following tips (no promises), she slept the entire way!

1. USE A BABY CARRIER!!! I can't write it loudly enough. A baby carrier can be a lifesaver when traveling solo with a baby. It keeps your hands free for carrying bags and other essentials, and it also keeps your baby close to you, which can help keep them calm and help them sleep. After trying several carriers (the ring, the sling, etc), my go-to is the Lillebaby 360 which has excellent back support and can be used from newborn up to 45lbs.

2. Gate check your stroller. One of my first ever baby travel mistakes was not having a stroller on our long haul flight from Brazil to the United States. A carrier is great, but eventually you'll want a break. Having a stroller with you is a convenient way to transport your other luggage while you're holding baby as well.

3. Pack extra outfits and diapers in your neck pillow: I loved this hack because one of the most challenging things is trying to pack an entire bag, yourself, AND a baby into an already too-small airplane bathroom to clean up a spill or change a diaper. A neck pillow is portable and doesn't require use of your hands. It also helps to save leg room so you can store that baby bag overhead. I always stuff in a few diapers, some wipes, an extra onesie, and a shirt for myself.

4. Book the bulkhead window seat ahead of time: I have always been a window seat person. I love watching the views during take off and just before landing. By having the bulkhead seat, I have extra leg room and can request a bassinet for my baby to sleep in (up to 11kg / 25lbs for most airlines). It's important to call and make this request ahead of the flight since most parents are eager to book these seats as well.

5. Plan ahead for security: In my experience, long lines with a baby or a toddler suck! In many countries, there are priority lines for parents with small children or strollers, but that is certainly not the case for going through customs with a baby in the United States. Be prepared for security screenings by having your baby's ID and your own ID easily accessible. Breastmilk and other liquids are allowed through customs, but they will likely do a swab test. It helps to have these items easily accessible in a separate bag.

6. Board Last: This is an easy one. Let your baby or toddler wear themselves out before getting on the plane. If you have a long flight with a baby, this will help them to sleep the majority of the way. Also, you will want to change them minutes before being the last one to board. This will save you from having to change them on the plane.

Traveling solo with a baby can be tough, but with these tips it doesn't have to be. Don't be afraid to ask for help from airport staff or other travelers whenever you need. You'll be surprised how kind some strangers can be.

ok...carry on!